"1.are there any physical veiwable signs of dehydration?"
Dull looking skin, cloudy eyes, lethargic, decreased appetite and in severe cases wrinkled, shriveled up skin. Monitors have an uncanny detection for water, moisture - if found constantly in such areas I suggest making sure they're not getting dehydrated.
"2. i feed him 2 large mice aday how often should he be using the restroom and what should his feces look like"
There are a lot of variables to how long it takes a monitor to defecate a particular meal. Typically, or should I say - under good conditions, my monitors that get fed daily usually defecate daily. Not always, but usually. A dehydrated monitor and a monitor on an erradict feeding schedule will sometimes hold their feces for days.
Their feces should be solid and not runny. Not dried out at the time of defecation but not very watery, either.
If you suspect dehydration you can soak it's rodents in water before feeding it. I think it's a good idea to do so every now & then.
Later!
HH
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Due to political correctness run amuck,
this ol' hillbilly is now referred to as an:
Appalachian American

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