Was the lady you bought them from name's Lynn? About 5-2,short brown hair,real sort of cocky attitude? Anwyays,she sold my father 3 veileds and told us NOTHING about seperating and actually encouraged us to buy the veilds in pairs. She said"Well don't you want the male to show off his colors?" They are good chams, but one of them has a defect now we are noticing from so much inbreeding,Gout, that my vet told us that is what it is from. id be careful about her. Shes usually on the eastern coast,phila,maryland,New England,etc. She kept all her chams in aquariums,and had about 3 to a cage(about 60 gallons) (just so yous know,my father is clueless and stubborn about this stuff,and HE bought the chams, i was not there, When i saw her later at a Hamburg show is when i saw her actually telling first time owners they needed a pair for the male to show off)