however, I still don't think that AnonEmouse was intentionally hammering the kid or trying to be a jerk or anything like that. I think maybe his response was a little strong, and perhaps had the look of sarcasm, but he made a good point. Perhaps a little more tact would have been in order, but his point remains. Hopefully, Copperheadkid will take it that way, too...and not just get discouraged and leave.
IMHO, how you present yourself, be it in person or in script, is everything. Right or wrong, people form an opinion of you by how you present yourself. I'm not saying they should, but it's human nature. If you (even in this forum) cannot communicate effectively, you are going to be largely ignored and considered as less intelligent whether you really are or not. It's the same way in real life. The people that go places and are given opportunities are the effective communicators. You know that as well as I do. You may have a good idea, but if you can't communicate it, it's worthless. People who can communicate effectively and have that capability to write clearly and concisely but choose not to because they don't want to take the time and effort, in my opinion, show a lack of respect to the people that they want to read their writings or answer their questions. On this forum, we can't see the people we are communicating with. The only opinion we can form of them is based on what and how they write.
One of the things that makes this sort of communication frustrating is the overuse and abuse of slang and abbreviation. Not everyone knows what FWC and EDB and JCP mean. They could mean anything, but people for some reason insist on peppering their posts with these things. I even saw someone using PD in here. I didn't have a clue what the heck that was. Come to find out, it's Prairie Dog. Come on, now...this is a reptile forum..how the heck is anyone supposed to know what that means? To me, it's pure laziness. It's easier and faster to type EDB that Eastern Diamondback. To heck with whether everyone understands what you mean, let's just take the easy way. Couple that with words that are misspelled, poor grammar and incomplete or nonsequetorial sentences and you have a post that is just way too much trouble to try to decipher. As much as you may want to help someone, you aren't going to spend 30 minutes trying to figure out what all the abbreviations mean and what he actually meant to say or ask as opposed to what was really written. An occasional misspelled word is certainly forgiveable, but when you have a post where at least 20 percent of the words are misspelled, it is full of obscure abbreviations and slang terms and half the sentences are incomplete or make no sense whatever, then it becomes just too much drudgery to read them. Nobody is going to fault anyone for writing a scientific name as Crotalus adamanteus instead of Crotalus adamanteus or Crotalus adamanteus or Crotalus adamanteus, because it is still easily understandable even if it isn't technically correct.
I have put together (for this very reason) a Glossary of terms and abbreviations commonly used on this forum (including biological and genetics related terms) and submitted it to the moderators so that they can put it somewhere on here for people to use. I spent about 2 days working on it, and Paul Hollander spent a couple of days reviewing and editing it. I submitted it 3 weeks ago and Bonnie still hasn't gotten back to me on the final disposition. I see and answer probably 2 or 3 posts a week asking what this or that abbreviation or word means and usually they have a whole list of them. How many people would you think don't ask because they don't want to appear dumb? How much fun would it be to try to read this forum if you didn't understand any of the jargon? I think a Glossary is something that is sorely needed here, but apparently it's not a high priority.