You need to be very careful when you read what I write (most of the time), as I attempt to select very specific words to try to avoid confusion about what it is that I am trying to say. Because your feelings have been injured, I will make another attempt at what I *meant* versus what I think you got out of my words.
Asking questions is one way we learn... well, most of us, and there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with asking questions. What I tried to say is that I believe it is presumptuous and LAZY of someone to post a one line request "Can someone tell me everything there is to know about ....." and for them to expect an response that actually does tell them "everything" about a subject. That's what rubs my hind end raw.
If a person posts a SPECIFIC question like: "I am having trouble getting one-piece sheds from my Rhino viper. I'm currently keeping the enclosure at approximately 60% relative humidity with daily mistings and I'm not sure if I'm keeping the enclosure too humid or if it's too dry. Can someone give me a little insight into correcting this shedding problem?" This is a quickly made up scenerio, but I think if you look at it you'll understand that it's more focused and possible to answer.
When a post goes up from someone who wants the people on the message board to spend their time posting all the information in the world about a topic in one little neat place so the (LAZY) initiator of the question doesn't have to do ANY research, then I think it is idiotic to to expect an answer in the very first place.... Why should someone, anyone, take hours (because capturing and writing *everything* about a subject can surely take a lifetime of hard work and reasearch) to sit and write "everything" they know about any subject, when it is my not so humble opinion that anyone so lazy to frame a qquestion in that way probably won't be in the hobby long enough to apply the answer anyway.
You have NO IDEA how many hours (probably months when you add it all up) that I have spent in front of this keyboard, answering questions on message boards and through email about any manner of topics, with nothing more to show for it than the SATISFACTION that I helped someone who was willing to take a few minutes to do a little homework and ask the right questions. No, there isn't a list of questions I will answer and a list that I won't. It boils down to having to be selective about those posts that have a look or feel about them. It's all subjective and I know that may not be fair or even right, but there isn't enough time in a day to work, spend time with family, take care of animals *and* babysit every runny nose on the planet who doesn't have any respect for the time of the people who frequent these boards, or any other for that matter. Maybe that's all it boils down to... respect... the far greater majority of people who would as the world to tell all, don't have the time to say thank you for the answers they *do* get, and wouldn't know what to do with the information if they had it available to them.
The fact is that I can spend an hour or two researching almost any topic I am interested in, and become learned enough to at leat *try* whatever it is that I want to do without having to ask someone to tell me *everything* there is to know about whatever that topic is...
Learning is much like building a structure. You must first lay a good foundation in order to construct the rest of the building. Without a solid foundation, the building will crumble. People are always asking how to put the roof on the building before finding out how to lay that foundation. If you go back and look at the answer I gave a few days back on "beginner" venomous, you will see that I took a very long time to spell out what I believe is the right thing to do if a person is interested in keeping venomous snakes. I know the post isn't *that* old, and I also know that if a person searched the boards he or she would not have any difficulty finding the post. That the same questions get asked over and over again, supports my theory that most people who post on this kind of forum are more interested in seeing their name on the board than they are on contributing anything usefull, or in finding usefull information.
The bottom line is that I wanted to apologise to you, specifically, as I felt I must have injured you in some way. For that I am sorry. I intended my post to be general in nature and apparently I fell short of the mark. I'll try to do a better job of answering those questions that I feel qualified to answer and ignoring those that I feel don't deserve a response.
I am ALWAYS available through email. Sometimes it takes me 24 hours or so to write a response, but I generally will drop a short note to let someone know it will take me a little longer to write a proper answer than I have at the moment.
Tom Townsend
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"Seek first to understand, then to be understood"