Sorry about your loss, that is terrible. Was your albino male in with that female at all? He could have stopped eating because of being on breeding mode. If he was with her, I would quarantine him right away just as a precaution, in case he does have something that he could have caught from her.
As far as force feeding goes, usually it is done via a feeding tube that is inserted into the snakes stomach through its mouth. Then a wet dog food like mixture is squeezed down the tube using a syringe. But that is only as a last resort, if your animal has not been eating for awhile. You need to take him to a good reptile vet and have him/her look him over and asses the proper course of action, I am by no means a vet.
Good reptile vets are sometimes hard to find, you might want to check with some neighboring towns and see if you can find a good vet that can see you sooner.
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Alex Tower
Serpentine Selections