>> "Remember every night your snake is looking to get out"
This CANNOT be stressed ENOUGH!!,..every single person in this hobby,...EVERYONE has had this happen at one time or another, and it has ALWAYS been something that could have easily been prevented. They are true escape artists, and will always diligently search for an escape route,...it is just their nature.
If the husbandry needs in their environment are more optimum, they will be much more comfortable and not be so gung-ho about searching for escape. But no matter what, they still do it, and look for any possible gap to push at.
Snakes are WAY stronger than most people think, and this is another reason so many succeed in escaping their enclosures.
As for holding them,.....that is up to you, but like the other's have said, they do not seek attention whatsoever, but more handling will let them be more relaxed and accustomed to you and be less nervous and flighty.
Whatever you do, do NOT hold the snake until 2 days after it has eaten, or you could risk the snakes health with a regurgitation. Some are more tolerant than others about this, but this is a very good general rule to follow.
~Doug
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"a snake in the grass is a GOOD thing" 