I strongly suggest getting a copy of the Savannah book by Bennett and Ravi, available at our site, or here on the classifieds.
If these folks are really giving you this advice ("everyone" you know, including the rescue guy) then I would suggest limiting conversation to simpler topics like "Where can I get good tacos?" : )
You are certainly being given bad monitor lizard advice. Typical pet store recommendations though. Ugh.
The Home Depot mix of topsoil/playsand/vermiculite in a 50/25/25 mix is a good start. Mixes well, digs well, burrows well, and the lizards will use it.
Some folks go with just soil and sand, lots of folks dig their own in the forest or creek bed. But if you don't know where to start, or what makes a good soil, try the Home Depot mix. Simple and economical as well.
And get that book. It is a must have, and covers modern lizard husbandry very well.
Best of luck.
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