Hello,
It sounds like you already got some good advice from Mark (except for that first step... I was told there'd be no math!), and it sounds like your young male is eager, but just two weeks out of brumation, the female may not be ready yet. When did she last shed? I don't brumate my gaigeae, but those who do usually don't see breeding behavior until after the second post-brumation shed.
As far as how long to leave them together... guess it depends on how much you trust the female to not eat the male... I imagine there must be a significant size difference. I let my pair co-habitate for about two or three weeks last year and had my best clutch ever (11 eggs, all fertile), but then again, they are much closer in size (6 1/2 and 5 1/2 feet) and are a proven pair that have never shown any signs of agression towards each other. So, I'd say keep a very close eye on their behavior, and they will let you know when they are ready, willing, and able.
Nate
