Well actually he (I think its a he) wont come out for me at all. Unfortunately I tried holding him twice (basically just holding him in an open hand inside the cage so he'll still feel secure and could run away if he felt he needed to) in the last couple weeks and he didn't like it and since then he's been a little more timid.
I usually offer the pea sprouts when he's basking and usually he'll eat them. If not, I leave the plant there in front of him and leave. They are ALWAYS gone when I come bake 10-20 minutes later.
Yup, I talk gentle...even when he tried to dart (and he will from time to time...especially when he hears something loud).
I was thinking of this. Unfortunately my bed is a king size nautilus when weighs a TON. Not to mention the bookshelves and bed stands on either side.... 
Maybe I'll try to rig something so he can't dive down one side.
Wow! Thats pretty cool.
Yup, again what I had in mind. Short quiet handlings slowly increased in times...
Unfortunately he's hard to catch. He's got three hides to work with and will hide mostly in the biggest one i got (a cement reptile cave).
I'll have to think of something to do with the bed to keep escape routes minimal.
This sounds wierd, but would putting a shirt or something I've worn in with him help? I once tamed a "wild" gerbil to me this way.
Oh and by the way...do they like belly rubs? I did this and he really seemed to calm down at one point.