The simplest way really is to draw it out instead of just throwing the numbers around.
To make it simple we'll use S for spider and P for pastel.
Let's say its your male that is a bee. That means he has SsPp. Each locus (spot for that gene) has two alleles. So he's got one Spider gene - S - and one normal - s - in that spot. He also has one pastel - P - gene and one normal - p - in that spot.
With the female being normal, she would have all of the normal genes - sspp
Then just draw a little chart with the combinations you can have. And remember, each parent will only give one of their two alleles. I'll put the male genes across the top and the female genes down the side.
SP | Sp | sP | sp
sp | SsPp|Sspp|ssPp|sspp
I only listed the female combination of sp once, since she is guaranteed to give those alleles since she is normal. But as you can see, there are 4 combinations from the male.
So from this you have:
1/4 or 25% bee - SsPp
1/4 or 25% spider - Sspp
1/4 or 25% pastel - ssPp
1/4 or 25% normal - sspp
Hope this helps a bit.