"the infinite is impossible for the human mind to fathom"
Couldn't be more true.
Given any, or at least the majority of, scientific theories, whether it be string, brane, etc. There is no way of knowing what else is REALLY out there.
We can guess and make assumptions about our own universe, because of repeating patterns like Einstein proposed.
You can look at it like this: at some point, early organisms of distant planets must obtain energy in some way from the environment. Different ways exist, but there aren't THAT many. Most are very inefficient(such as bearded dragons [got some dragons in here lol] basking, which aids, but is not the primary source of energy.)
Photosynthesis in plants, and chemosynthesis in your hydrothermal vent organisms are what heterotrophic organisms use.
There could possibly be more, but considering the abundance of light given off by stars, and chemical substances that can be formed, these are highly likely to be sources of energy.
To harness these energy sources, evolution would push towards the best way possible just as it did on earth.
This is where convergent evolution comes in again.
HOWEVER, throw in theory of other universes and you debunk every law and theory of science. Because in other universes, things may not be at all the same. "Hydrogen" could be a metal, which means water could not exist as we know it. And that is assuming that atoms even exist. We can't even explain many things in our own universe such as the black hole information paradox and dark matter.
The truth is, as stated, we can not even begin to comprehend just how much there is to infinity.
Again, all my information is speculative, and what I believe from what I have learned. I have to thank you for such an interesting, thought provoking thread. Being that I'm only 17, not many people I know really care to delve into subjects like this. lol