Hello, my name is scott and i decided that eventually i want to own a BT monitor, however i want the monitor to enjoy the experience as well, so im waiting until i get out of college and get a job before i buy one. Until then, i just read about monitor care as a hobby.
My question is about taming, ive read alot of ah, "Advice" ranging from forcibly handling it (dont worry, i know not to) to some weird lizard-dominance psychology tips (very skeptical about those as well.) and i have a few questions about building trust and handling.
First is, when the monitor seems to tolerate you changing its water and cleaning its cage, when do you know its time to start trying to work with it without stressing it. By that i mean deliberate handling with the intent to get it used to you. I dont want to think its getting used to me when in reality its just getting stressed out due to me harassing it.
How often should i handle the monitor?
when should i do it?
How long should i do it for?
If it starts becoming aggressive should i try immediately the next day? or give it some time?
if so how much time?
should i feed it after handling?
does it understand a reward concept?
is it good to start handling in a bath tub while its swimming? some people say its calmer in water, is this true?
Another thing, is has anyone tried Operant Conditioning to make their monitors enjoy being handled? I know monitors are pretty smart lizards, so i think its not out of the realm of possibility. My psych professor told me he did it with pigeons, and i really want to believe a monitor is smarter than what it eats....
Now, i know i could buy a book, written by someone with a degree possibly some other qualifications, but i know alot of you are dedicated enthusiasts but i know alot of you are dedicated people and id like to hear your first hand thoughts and life experiences on these questions.
Again, i am rather set on owning a BT monitor, so if you also have specific advice about that breed, i would greatly appreicate it.
Thanks in advance, Scott.


