>She still refuses to eat but seems to be doing well.
Does she do some activities on her own, like moving in and out of the basking zone? Taha would be a real good sign.
> How
long can she go on like this. I am still force feeding pureed
food every 3 days along with vitamins/calcium.
Cut way back on the vitamins. She's surely getting too much, even to the point of hyoervitaminosis, which would make her sick.
>Has anyone elses Ig went this long?
I nursed an ig who had surgery for reupured ovaries and severe inflammation of the surfaces of her internal organs (Peritonitis). She was just about dead. I nursed her for 3 months before the exploratory surgery, and for three months after it. Every day I fed pureed ig food using a stainless steel 6 inch long ball tipped large bore needle and a large plastic syringe. It got to be pretty routine. Then I decided to let her get hungry and voila! she began eating again. She's with her owners, still doing well.
Sick igs can take a long time to rehabilitate. Ask your vet about getting one of those needles and a big syringe to go with it. It's not hard to tube feed once you become confident that the tube can't go down the airway.
Could it be that it is ME?
Yes, if she has no medical condition that is making her anorexic. In that case, your ig is merely dependent on being hand fed. I's a well-known trap for igs and their owners. Again, in that case the way to test the hypothesis is to stress her by witholding food for about 10 days. If she has no medical issue, she'll resume eating after that short fast.
> She seems very comfortable with me
and likes interaction but maybe she just does not like me???
She accepts you. That's good enough, so her anorexia is not directly related to you.
Should I find a new owner for her?
You couldn't find a better owner. Plus, a stranger and a new house will stress her out with Relocation Stress.
In your place, I'd get outfitted with the stainless feeding tube, and feed pureed ig food every day. When you get good at it, it takes about two minutes, and the food goes straight into the stomach. She needs to eat every day, not every three days, and the tube will make that easy to do.
Roger