Hi,
Obviously, pinkies of either mice or rats do have calcium, otherwise, as you pointed out, babies would never grow. However, in my animals, the big growth surge is from that juvi stage until adulthood. That is when they seem to need the most mineral support. Of course you kind of have that chicken and egg thing going on where I don't know if my kids are growing faster because they are eating bigger, more mature (and calcified) food, or they are eating bigger, more mature food because they are growing faster and can handle the step up.
Another point to consider is temperatures. My friend FR taught me long ago of the critical role that temps play in varanid growth and development. The truths revealed in his groundbreaking realizations about temperatures absolutely make a huge difference when applied properly with any reptile. I have had monitors, turtles and snakes respond in exactly the same manner to Frank's "Heat'um and Feed'um" philosophy. They grow bigger, grow quicker and produce many, many more clutches in a year. He has proven beyond the shadow of a doubt that when you give reptiles (most obvious in varanids) the ability (choice) to bask at extremely high temps they can absorb and use nutrients (especially minerals) at a much greater rate than similar animals kept with care sheet temps (high of 85F). For example, folks who allow their snakes (pythons or kings, doesn't matter) to bask at temps of 100F or more will support much more growth than folks who offer highs in the mid 80s. The snakes that bask at the higher temps can process food better and more quickly and will have better and quicker growth rates. When higher temps are offered, better absorption might mitigate those issues that Dave brought up in our conversation.
Consequently, when those high temps are offered, correspondingly cool temps should also be offered as my snakes (pythons and kings) will rest comfortably at 60F or lower with a belly full of food when they are not basking at 100ish. In fact, as an example, my female Boelen's python was basking under a flood lamp at 102F yesterday afternoon with a large food lump. Last night at around midnight, I shot her (temp gun) again as she rested peacfully on the floor of her cage at midnight at 62F.
I really don't think it has to be one way or another, regarding prey and I'm sure many people have raised many snakes to adulthood on young, poorly calcified feeders. There are (obviously) many, many factors that contribute to growth rates and as John said, feed them when they are hungry and they'll grow. We can however tweak our husbandry in ways to allow them to max out their grwth potential. Good topic, thanks.
Will