It turned out that it was not the same thing. He mentioned that he got a bunch of balls from the same breeder and some showed signs of bubbling and wheezing, and some just died for no reason, and that there was salmonella in the cultures, so....
Mine had something that looked fleshy hanging out of his mouth, but was in no way a rodent of any sort, so...this is going to have to just be an unsolved mystery, and I am leaning towards substrate or possible salmonella, but I wouldn't even begin to know where or how my snakes would have acquired salmonella.
And as for the "not telling" thing. I ALWAYS want to help make this hobby better, and I would tell everyone in a heartbeat the outcome of anything suspicious, but I didn't know what or where he was going with "what he was going to tell me" so I opted to respect his wishes, what ever they were. It turned out that he just needed to get some personal info from me to see if my snake came from the same breeder that he got his from that died. He didn't tell me the breeders name, so I don't know that info.
I have had the fire since Tinley Park of 2010. I feel that is enough time to clear the breeder of responsibility.
I didn't know that it was going to be this hard to figure out what happened, or I would have kept the carcass and had a necropsy done, but I figured it would be an easy thing for you guys to just tell me what had happened. This is just another one of those bad learning experiences and I am going to move on from here.
Let me reiterate that I feel EVERYTHING should be disclosed about this hobby. Including, what makes certain morphs, and failed clutches and deaths and their causes. I would love to know what certain combos are so that I can work towards acquiring the ingredients in my collection to make my own. I would like to know what things have killed your snakes so that I can dodge those causes. I would love to know what breeders have been less than ethical so that I can steer clear of them.