Yes a proportional thermostat can control a fan. It's a 120v output, so no problem with that. But there is no use to it.
You also DON'T WANT TO CONNECT the fan with the thermostat.
WHY : Cause the fan will stop running when the heat stop. Meaning you won't have air movement and the temperature inside the incubator won't be all equal.
suggestion : find a fan that it's wattage is lower. It will produce less heat for the same amount of CFM.
Also, what's the temperature in the room the incubator is in. You should have your incubator in the coldest place of your house, not in the reptile room that is already heated. It will be easier to control that way.
If that doesn't work, and the incubator is really small, I suggest removing the fan and/or removing a part of the heat tape (or what else you are using for heat). If it's small, air movement shouldn't be much of a problem. If it's small and you are using to much heat element, you are creating spikes of temperatures.
Lastly, I would also check the temperatures in the incubator in any other way, may be your thermostat is offset, happens once in a while or if someone added an offset value to it. (That's the only way offsetting the value from 89 to 85 could work).
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