Well..Clark decided to poop the weekend just before he was to go in for surgery. So we called it off. Since then, he has only gone maybe once each week. I have been feeding him the baby foods and soaking regularly. But he's getting more and more annoyed at me lol. I'm thinking that since he IS going, that maybe he just needs some time to recoop and be left alone. He wont eat on his own, or come out, but he acts normal in every other way. I think the stress of all the feedings and being ill for so long got to him.
Let's just hope that he comes around soon!
thanks for all the well wishes!! 
Renee
