i have been trying to use the popping method and i think to the best of all the information i have accessed that i am doing it correctly. My problem is sometimes i can tell its a definite male with the hemipenis obviously protrudes from the vent however sometimes when i thing they are female there are red spots where the hemipeni usually protrude and a white liquid comes from them like sperm possibly.I am wondering if these are merely glands or if they are maybe hemipeni that are not popping out

