I know this has been your experience, but certainly not mine. My adult igs have long since reached sexual maturity and still enjoy being around each other. Both my male iguana and my female iguana are over 4 years old and nearly 5 feet long. My male rhino iguans is about 3 years old and is has been very pleasant to this point. They have plenty of space. They have a very large cage in a very large room. They also free roam on a daily basis when I come home from work. They also have a very large outdoor cage, which I put them all in at the same time. Not one of my igs have ever attacked each other.
I am not saying that this could never change. However, I have had enough experience with iguanas to know that there personalities are not always the same.
It is often easy to come to a conclusion based on your experience, but others may experience things differently. It is thus false to assume that all iguanas will act a certain way because ours do.