appreciate all your input and like i said I love him endlessly no matter what it was just a matter of having good ethics and which she obviously doesnt. Yes I will move on and get over it and will not return the puppy to her. There were more things that had bothered me lately about her but I kept ignoring it and thought maybe I am just too worried about my new pup but that just proved that I was right. One thing was that she told me they eat their feces all the time, which made me wonder in what kind of environment did he live there. I am glad he is home with us now and here he won't have to worry about eating his poop.
One lesson learned never trust anybody! No matter how good of "innocent face" they put on. Now I know why she never did let me inside her home to see the puppy there, I was only allowed to visit him once and that outside of her house. Oh well like I said over with done I guess I just had to blow off some steam in here!