>>-- Ok, I guess my question wasnt clear. I had to re-write it three times for different reasons , and in an attempt to shorten I guess left out the important stuff.
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>>Let me try to say this again. If we have company should we try and avoid the stimulus that causes jumping behavior? Or do we try to expose him to the stimulus and make him sit stay?
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>>So I think what I am trying to say is should we be trying to avoid the jumping behavior or trying to replace the jumping behavior with something more suitable? I guess this question sounds simple, but in practice its not so clear.
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>>For instance; Company comes over and the dog is told to sit/stay and is kept on the leash and near me. I pet him, and praise him for the sit/stay. However the company is not praising him because their praise will cause him to jump.
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>>So what I should be doing is letting the company greet praise him for sitting? The problem is when they do that, with the leash attached and held down, he tends to squirm and thrash about.
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>>I think I am having trouble holding him down in comfortable sitting (or standing for that matter) position while still not allowing him to jump. When I hold the leash in a manner that wont allow him to jump it also causes him to not be able to sit/stand enough to greet and sniff the people. Do you know what I mean? Is there a technique in doing this?
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>>Thanks
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The goal is for him to learn, eventually without the leash, to keep his four feet on the ground while being petted. If you feel he's overwhelmed at this point by guests leaning over and petting him, then they could perhaps walk by him, maybe next they can stand by him, maybe next just touch him briefly on the head with one hand, etc.
He doesn't need to be sniffing people. That is considered rude by many, and is not a goal of the greeting.
Replacing wild behavior with another behavior is fine. Some people do well having the dog hold onto a toy. Sit for petting is a very good substitute behavior. Petting should never come with the dog on hind legs.
Training class is a good place to work on this, or have a friend come by on prior arrangement so that you can be ready to train. Anytime you are NOT going to work with the dog, don't bring the dog to the door. Not until the behavior is a habit and the dog will just naturally not jump up. One major step in working on that is for the leash to be slack, not tight or taut.
This takes time, for training, experience, and the dog to mature a bit. You have to really be consistent in not letting the bad habit be practiced and in rewarding the good habit.
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Kathy Diamond Davis, author, "Therapy Dogs: Training Your Dog to Reach Others," 2nd edition, and the free Canine Behavior Series articles at http://www.veterinarypartner.com/Content.plx?P=SRC&S=1&SourceID=47