>>chelle,
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>>thanks for the quick response. actually, i have noticed that most dogs, ours included (marlee), acts far more "crazy" when he is on his leash. i'm convinced that i myself have become a bit fearful of other dogs since the incident at the park, which likely plays a role. a new PetsHotel just opened up in our town and we're thinking about letting him spend a few days at "doggy daycare" to socialize. your suggestions are much appreciated, thanks!
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>>marshall
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It would be better for you to be involved with your dog's experiences around other dogs than to let day care personnel determine what happens to him. These experiences are forming his opinions of the world. A good training class where the other dogs are kept under control and dogs not allowed to jump on each other is better for the dog's recovery from this kind of trauma. A head halter can help until he learns he's safe there.
As far as adding another dog, a dog of opposite sex who lives with him becomes a family member and is not the scary situation of him having to fend for himself thrown in with a bunch of other dogs. He'd be top male and she'd be top female.
Train him first, and wait until you've had him two years before bringing in another dog. Then you can wind up with two stable, trained dogs instead of two with problems.
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Kathy Diamond Davis, author, "Therapy Dogs: Training Your Dog to Reach Others," 2nd edition, and the free Canine Behavior Series articles at http://www.veterinarypartner.com/Content.plx?P=SRC&S=1&SourceID=47