>>She also formed a habit of biting when she didnt want to do something- like go OUTSIDE to pee. we ended up chasing her out the door swatting her on the butt. my dogs arent allowed to beg or go charging out the door and rip your bare feet up with thier nails. If they do either of those they get a swat on the nose. I dont think its animal abuse. My dogs very rarely beg and we're getting a lot better with not charging out the door. I think if you just firmly say 'no, go away' maybe stand up when you say it so you're bigger than him. Or if hes a one-owner dog, have your boyfriend shoo him off. You might also try locking him in a bedroom.
Beth I realize you are trying to help, but your response is dangerous on so many levels.
First, a dog who has to be chased out the door is a dog out of control. Hitting a dog, ANY DOG, to get it to obey is simply WRONG and dangerous. You do not train a dog, child or other being by hitting it, period. Would I lay a dog out who was ATTACKING ME or someone else? IN A HEARTBEAT. But otherwise, hitting is simply lazy and abusive training. Train SMART.
I really recommend these sites for you and the OP to read. These seem like a lot, but the first has links to help you totally train your dog in all general obedience areas (including not jumping up on you), and the rest will help you train your dog and build a relationship that is safe and healthy:
The Lessons
http://www.clickerlessons.com/lessons.html
Punishment -- How Not to Do It.
http://www.clickandtreat.com/webart12.htm
Physical Discipline: Kathy Diamond Davis
http://hometown.aol.com/debradownsth/page1.html
When to say NO, literally
http://www.clickandtreat.com/pagetrn1.htm
How to be a Good Leader: Mary
http://www.clickerlessons.com/leader.html
Who's In Charge Here? A Lesson In Becoming Alpha
http://www.chowwelfare.com/cciw/alpha.htm
Building Pack Drive through Grooming: KDD
http://k9deb.com/drives.htm
Alpha-Roll Training Can Cause Serious Problems
http://www.veterinarypartner.com/Content.plx?P=A&S=0&C=0&A=984
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