Hey, first time here, thanks for any help you all can give. I searched on the forum but didn't find any information on my questions.
First of all, I have 2 1 year old male dobes. They are brothers. We got our first, and then adopted the second about 6 months later, as the family couldn't care for him.
Monte, our first, is dominant towards Red, our second.
I've heard people say that 2 male dobes can't live together, and my question is, how true is this, and what kind of problems will I face in the future? They do occationally get into fighting matches that are violent and I have to break them up.
2nd question-
I was recently riding in the car with my girlfriend and 2 dobes (in the backseat) I was in the passenger seat (the one I usually will use if I am taking one of them with me on a ride) Monte, my more aggressive Dobe, started growling in the backseat under his breath and looking at me, then started barking/growling at me in a way that said "i'm pissed off, but I know i'm not supposed to be doing this"
It happened in a way that really made me fearful that he would bite, and I know that I shouldn't have shown fear, and that that was a mistake, but I pulled away to the side of the window for the rest of the ride.
This bothered me. Since then, I've had no other problems with him trying to give me problems over couch/chair space or claiming dominance over anything else, I can pick up his food, move him from his seat, no big deal, but this one time scared me. We haven't rode in the car since. Any suggestions?
Thanks again for any help you can give, as you can probably tell, I've got my hands full here, but I have two truly great dogs, I just hope we can work everything out!

