Why did you decide to purchase a pit bull? It seems as if you are extremely nervous about possible problems with the dog and possibly with the dog and your daughter. Knowing this, why would you still decide to buy one?
Is it your first dog? Pit bull terriers can be a handful, and REQUIRE early socialization with tons of people and other animals. Can you provide this? Do you have dog training experience? Because they also are VERY strong dogs, they use them in pulling competitions, so they REQUIRE good obedience training.
I have an American bulldog, and she has been quite a handful. We had her in dog training classes, both group and individual for the first two years of her life. However, she does NOT get along with other dogs, we have had to rehome our other dog after keeping them physically separated from each other for over a year. Luckily, the other dog is actually my son's dog and he was finally in a position to take her. The other dog almost definitely has pit bull in her background, we are pretty sure that she is a border collie/pit bull mix.
I'm not trying to scare you or deter you from keeping this puppy, however these are questions that came up when I read your post. If you do decide to return the puppy (not saying that you should or should not), remember that it is much easier to do when they are cute and little. And it is much better to do it before you and the dog get seriously attached to each other.
>>Hi! I am about to become the new owner of a pit bull. I have done tons of research about these dogs admist the terrible reputation they have. I am very interested in the one that I am about to purchase. I am a single mom of a 7 year daughter. I have put off adopting the pit because of some still fear that the scary stories could possibly happen to us. I have searched and searched and searched to find the "right" dog for us.
>>Someone please help to ease my nerves!! once that's done, can you give me some advice on how to keep 'Nala' healthy and happy and loving... i need advice on food, crate training and just everything.
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sue, cheyenne-the American bulldog bully, nehi-her long suffering border collie mix, and charlie-our "basic black, white, and brown dog" who is watching from the bridge.