Here's my advice, get a 2" juvenile. Or maybe even a larger individual of a different species, to get your feet wet in the hobby first. As new owners we usually want the instant gratification that comes from seeing a big spider day to day and possibly handling it at times. Tiny spiders around the ½ inch mark are fairly boring day to day. (I know, I have several) And at that size, they take forever to grow. Brachypelmas are some of the slowest to grow at that size. You'd be lucky if it hit 1" in a years time. I have an Aphonopelma chalcodes that is over a year old and is still ¾". Do you have the patience for that? I know I didn't at first. A 2" spider is going to have adult coloration and will be more active. Plus it will grow a little faster than a s'ling.
Have you looked into other species? There are better species for your first one, not that B. boehmei is a bad choice. You may look into getting a Grammostola rosea or something else that is an adult ($20 at the pet store) to see how you like it, then after a little experience and the headache that goes with learning the ins and outs and what is normal in arachnid husbandry/behavior, then you can move on to get a s'ling. Just something to ponder.
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