I figure I would start by saying Hello! I was referred to this site by a friend after speaking with her some about taking care of a tarantula she had long ago, She breeds and raises exotic birds now. She said I would be able to find a good deal of information from this site, and I really have learned a lot in many different areas of taking care of a T as you all seem to call them.
Anyway, I have been thinking about getting a T, and think they would be really neat to be able to watch grow, also the period of time they can survive (well females mostly) and of course the Taboo of owning something that when the average person sees gets freaked out
. One other reason I would like to have one is because they seem much more low maintenance then other "pets" if thats what there called. and I don't really have a lot of room where I live, and can't have anything like a dog or cat.
I have been reading on some sites about whats the best species to get for beginner keepers, and of course the first one that came up majority of the time was the rose. Also there were a few others, but all of the articles except one said that the rose was the best.. I know this might be a ridiculous question, but why is that? As far as reading the other information on the different species the other "beginner" T's had the same description and temper.
I also found this site.. which shows many more as species being good for beginners.
http://homepage.ntlworld.com/the.tarantula.store/care-species.htm
Another thing I keep reading about is the T's urticating hairs, I realize that any type of creature kept in captivity has its risks.. I've heard so many different things about it though.. some saying that they can cause irritation, blisters, and sometimes even have to be surgically removed. I also read an article of some one saying that it can cause temporary blindness, and if inhaled can do damage to your respiratory system. How much of a threat is this really. By no means am I trying to say that I want to cuddle with my T as often as I can, but I would imagine most of the hobbyists on this site have wanted to hold them occasionally, at least the calm and docile ones.. I realize that with some of the more aggressive species this isn't even an option and the bigger, more aggressive, and older they are should be treated with that respect.
I also wanted to ask about housing for your T, I've heard anything from a 5-10 gallon tank.. to some makeshift tub you would using to tote things away. Is it really that customizable? I would like to have a decent set up for my T, and just want to be able to take care of them how they should be cared for. Also I would feel a little better about his housing if it weren't a shoe box so to say.. no offense to those that have them. 
I was also curious as to my location. I live in Northwest Ohio about 45 minutes from Toledo if anyone is familiar, and it seems that temperature control is a very big part of keeping a T in captivity. The summers can get unbearably hot, and the winters can get bitter cold. Should this have an effect of me getting a T and possibly which one? I would imagine as long as there habitat is of proper climate and condition they should be alright?
Lastly I was wondering what you think would work best for a first time keeper. Would a more fully grown T be easier to care for then a spiderling? I like the idea of starting out with a spiderling just because I think it would be neat to care for it and watch it moult and really turn into a beautiful and stunning creature.
Sorry the lengthy message, and I hope it isn't to confusing to read. Also thank you for input on the matter, I'm basically a sponge and looking to absorb as much information on these creatures as I can.
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