Hey Chris - sorry for late reply! Been busy with herps, caterpillars - and their diseases
LOTS of cleaning and disinfecting going on. All the humid weather caused a lot of bacterial (and viral and fungal) disease in my cecropia and promethea this year. Not fun. 
Very cool that you got her last two eggs and raised them successfully to this stage!! A few things to keep in mind...you said you were going to put them under the swing set once they spin. If you just leave them on the ground there is a good chance that a bird, mouse or other hungry critter will enjoy them for dinner, so I would suggest making a cage out of hardware cloth/wire mesh of 1/4"-1/2" mesh. Of course 1/4" is safer as no little "hands" or snout will fit.
The photo period (day length) has as much, if not more, influence on whether they will go into winter diapause or not, but this seems to be based on their first few instars (light exposure). It can get very confusing for those of us who want to try and mimic nature! I have raised all the species both indoors and out and for my luna it does not seems to matter (my second brood has already begun eclosing and I got a pairing last night so will have eggs tomorrow!) and the poly are less predictable. Cecropia, promethea and io I never get more than one generation a year - as it should be.
If you keep them outdoors in their little homemade cage they may come out this season, but if not, just leave them there all winter and they will be exposed to normal temps, snow, rain, sun, and day length. Make the cage a minimum of 6" square so if/when they do eclose they will have room to climb and expand their wings. I have a pic somewhere, will look for it and post.
I recognized your user name and knew I had "met" you before either here on on one of the herp (reptile) forums. As for your wife not wanting them in the house - well, I guess I can understand, but if you sit quietly near their cage/tank and listen to them crunching on their food (especially if you they are eating oak!) I think one cannot at least respect the fact that these little six-legged creatures are turning leaves into moths...maybe she'll see them in a different light. I KNOW she will when she sees the adults!
Please keep me posted on your/their progress!
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