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Love Hate Relationship

babette563 Aug 30, 2005 09:02 PM

We adopted 2 females (Odie the tortie and Munchies the tabby) two years ago. They were in the same foster home and were the greatest of friends. At home, they would sleep together and groom each other. We also have an older manx female, Oreo, who watches after them and keep them out of trouble.

Last September, we evacuated due to hurricanes Frances and Jeanne to my inlaws two blocks away. Their house was newer and had the latest hurricane safeties. Needless to say, our house was damaged during the storms. We lived at my inlaws for 9 months while repairs were being made. The cats were not happy about living there but were soon happy with their new "temporary" accommodations. Except, Odie and Munchies started to fight. Odie developped a case of Bartonella in November and again in June. I have been monitoring her behavior towards Munchies and she seems normal. Munchies, on the other hand, will growl and hiss at her as if she didn't know who she was. I was hoping that it would pass when we returned home. Alas, it did not.

I do have to mention that they will eat together and lounge in our screened-in porch watching lizards and birds. But when poor Odie wants to play, she gets shunned! Could this be linked to the Bartonella? My vet did mention that she does put out an odor only when the virus flares up. But this has been going on regardless of the virus.

I would appreciate any words of wisdom.

Liz

Replies (1)

PHMadameAlto Aug 31, 2005 09:21 PM

It does sound as if there must have been some change in smell, coupled with the new surroundings that has given Munchies an aversion to Odie.

Since they seem to get along on the porch, this is probably the best place to let them intermingle for a while. Otherwise, you might try keeping them separate at various times of the day.

Also you can try a Feliway plug-in (Comfort Zone) These are pricy but could help relieve some of the tension. Also your vet might be able to prescibe some sort of anti-anxiety drug for Munchies to take for a bit. Usually when the anxiety level is lowered, the agression is "unlearned" and the drug can be gradually withdrawn.

Good luck!
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