I have two sons that are 7 and 3 and both are animal lovers especially the 7 year old. We got our first corn snake when the older son was about 3 years old. I bought a full grown snake and I am so glad I did. The snake had been raised by a little girl, and was calm and docile. He never minded kids holding him. He also wasn't as quick to slither off when feeling threatened. I have hatchling corns now and it is very hard for young children to hold them because they are quick and never hold still. It's been four years and we still have Corneilus. My kids love him and now all the neighbor kids are getting to know him. Some of the girls who hated snakes are now even holding him. I would recommend an older snake if it's possible for you to get one. Just thought I would share what works well for us....
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Anna
Corns
1.0 Snow - Cornelius
1.1 Ghost(pastel) - Eek & Boo
1.1 Amel - Parker & Scarlet
0.1 Hypo - Nikko
0.1 Anery - Missy
0.1 Hypo Hurricane Motley - Cordelia aka Cordy
Boas
0.1 Columbian (BCC) - Bella
Lizards
0.0.1 Leopard Gecko - Leo
Rats
0.1 Dumbo - Dirt
Cats
1.1 Siamese - Blue & Fiona
0.1 Gray DMS - Druscilla aka Dru
Horses
1.0 Thourghbred (Hunter/Jumper) - Morgan's Majesty aka Cody