what i have read is that the mating process can at times be violent. what behavior is NORMAL violent matine behavoir and what is NOT normal?
tonight everything seemed to be right. i had my male outside his cage on his pothos and brought my female over to see what would happen. the male started bobbing and got starry eyed. the female maintained her peacky pumpkin color so i put him back into his cage and started the process over. this time however he fired up. the female maitained her color. i held her there think HE would change but he did NOT. taking a risk i placed her into his cage on the other side. she went ove to HIS side under the basking light. the entire time he was puffed up but othr then that no aggressive behavior. THEN once she is under the light he gets starry eyed and starts bobbing and moving his head closer. a couple times she would open her mouth but not really gaping(?). the male finally dtarted to move over the top of her, she gaped a bit then SHE ended up falling to the botom of the cage turning almost completly black. i picked her cupping herin my one hand to take her out think it was NOT time, but after a momoent in my hand she started to change back to her pumpkin color, no gaping, biting, hissing nothing agressive. so i placed her back into HIS cage on the opposite side she started ove to his side again. he saw her and puffed up and headed her way lunging at her once as he approahed over the top of her and then striking at her. i don't think he got her though. at this point my only thought was to seperate them as i felt things had turned bad. this second time around his eyes are not starry and there is no bobbing. after i got her out of his cage i held here until she seemed to calm a bit and then placed into her own cage for the night. meanwhile my male is NOW starry eyed and looking for his girl? did i pull her out too soon or should i have NOT even put them together yet?
dennis


