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okay I know this is a chameleon forum....
but I have a question , I know there are decent people on here and I hope you can help me...

here it goes... is it better to end a relationship or not even start onee that you know will not last.. or you feel you might get hurt .. kinda like madonnas song express yourself.. second best is never enough.. youll do much better baby on your own.

or is it better to try and try to love not thinkin of the outcome .. so there will be no ..could have been.

anyone who has any strong ideas or expirences please share them with this young girl.

Thankyou

and that goes for both men and women. if he/she doesn't feel the same then move along. dont try so hard but be confident.

dennis

Its hard to tell if both parties feel the "same", but if you can somehow tell that you both don't feel the "same" way about each other, then why bother? You are only giving yourself more ways to get hurt. My advice...Move along, they'l be others out there, and.....Get a a chameleon instead! LOL!

I have one...

Kojack is the light of my life but little man just don't cut it as a snuggler...
I just have always been such a romantic about love that i dove in now Im steppin back an wonderin .. thinkin maybe there is something to be said for not wasting time on something that wont last... I kinda think it shows integrity.. but then i look back an think of the relationships Ive had that didn work they were still good expierecnse.. Im glad I had em... see this is what is drivin me crazy!!!!

If YOU are the one that doesn't think it will last because of your own feelings, cut the other loose...they shouldn't be led on if you know it isn't going to last. You both are putting valuable time into a relationship that you can't get back...you or he could be missing out on the ONE by staying together.

If it's you that is trying to avoid getting hurt by hanging onto a relationship that won't last, let it go as well...if you are getting those vibes now, it's not a good thing and you don't want to get hurt more down the road. I hope it's the former for your sake.

Kristen
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1.1 pygmy leaf
1.1 carpet
1.0 jackson
0.0.3 red eared sliders

First get yourself a chameleon,

Guys love reptiles, after word gets around, you should have so many guys flocking to see your chameleon, you'll have to beat them off with a stick! Sooner or later you'll find one who loves the chameleon and YOU! (not in that order)

On a more serious note:
I have no opinion on such a matter as I'm lucky to be married with all the animals I have....good luck, hope everything works out.

Thanks guys...
I heard what I needed to hear, I appreciate yall takin the time