"...shouldn't weight be correlated more so than size?"
Well, there is a point there, but lots of folks don't have the means to weigh them, and it depends on if we're talking just females or males and females. It would be good to have data on weights, but at 3.5 yrs, my male had no problems as a breeder. My female did have some problems. Currently, he is 254 grams and she is 367 grams. She wasn't that big with the first pairing though and didn't seem ready, not wanting to breed. I'm guessing she was too small and too young, but there could have been some other reasons.
Some females could be shaped more like a male at that age, i.e. slimmer, and not have enough weight for reproduction. Although it's very soon to have enough evidence, my guess is the female was just not mature enough and/or she didn't have enough reserves to develop a clutch of eggs. The next female I raise up will be 4.5 yrs. old, at least, and hopefully lots more receptive. As stated, my current female is 367 grams and probably will get even heavier next year. I'll try to mate her again next spring and see what happens at 4.5 yrs. of age. You're smart to be cautious.
Good luck....TC.