My definition of social is no less valid than yours, Frank. Wild monitors may be social by your definition (any gathering, no matter what the cause or for how long) and not by mine, in which case we are both 'correct' by our own definitions. As far as who recruits what and which populations are more successful than others, that requires years of work taking blood samples for dna analysis to determine which adults were producing how many, and which, offspring. If you have done such a study on wild monitors in Australia, I'd love to read the paper. No one would do a study like that without getting funding and then publishing the results.
"You say social is, being together during non breeding seasons, Hmmmmmmmmm then all dens are social."
No, what I actually said was "...social is spending time together outside of the breeding season, for reasons other than a shared resource." Dens are a shared resource. I even gave the example of red sided garter snakes as non social animals sharing a resource. Yes they breed after brumation, but then they disperse. Social isn't just groups, it's meaningful groups interacting.
"Aside from that, I showed pics of several sexual pairs that were not gravid, in nature, I recieved no comment on this. In reality, I can find that everyday in the field. But then I know where to find that."
Ah.. the old photo thing. Frank, you've mentioned having shown photos of monitors being social in the wild. All I can recall is a single photo of two kingorum (if I remember correctly) on a rock. Not sure if the photo was taken in Arizona or Australia (certain geological features seem to suggest the former, but I am no expert in these matters). As neither of these kingorum seemed to be bothered looking up at the photographer I gathered they were either captives basking, or wild ones that were cold, asleep or under a rock had just been lifted. Undisturbed, active wild monitors would never allow someone to walk up, lean over and take a photograph from above like that, except for large species in picnic ares. There was nothing in the photo suggesting that they were in any way 'social'. Someone else also posted photos of oranges in a discussion on apples and I missed the point of that exercise entirely.
As far as photos of captives in a pile, I have plenty of those shots of my own, thanks.
"With our lacies, we see them pairing off and staying that way, not only for breeding, but for much longer. I would like to say for life, but I have not kept them that long. Of course, i can breed them to other males, but in those cases I must munipulate them. The events are not linear. I must control them. With chosen pairs, all you have to do is leave them alone and events are linear."
Captive stuff. I see a lot of interesting stuff with my captives, too, limited as my collection is. It remains observations of captives, though.
As far as the gartersnakes go, two things. 1. Young ones are better able to find suitable microhabitats for brumation (they are smaller, fit into smaller spaces). 2. If the adults gathered only to be social they'd do it during their active months. The fact that they gather in autumn, brumate, mate, than disperse in spring suggests that brumation is a huge part of why they do that. Funny thing is, they don't form these huge gatherings in areas where there isn't limestone just beneath the surface, as there are more brumation options available. I'll have to check my photos for smaller snakes.