Let's take a slightly different approach to the issues that FR wants to debate. There is a large body of observation, and a lot of scientific investigation, that fails to support the interpretation that monitors are social in the wild.
Some of the disagreement is simply terminological, and this is a sterile backwater. Of course monitors come into proximity or contact with each other, for example at mating season, or in situations where there are concentrated resources such as food or shelter, and they get along within certain limits. That's not social, because then there'd be no such thing as a nonsocial animal.
The real distinction is whether, given the opportunity to choose, a wild monitor seeks out and remains with one or more other individuals, or it goes the other way, when mating or resource concentrations are factored out. If Frank and I are set down 50 feet apart in a field, are we going to end up 5 feet apart or 500? Why?
Getting past terminology, what do you see when you set out to observe wild monitors? In the great majority of instances individuals are widely spaced. Sure, you can find pairs and trios together during breeding season, but at other times the same individuals are hundreds of yards apart, and go about their daily lives without any regular contact with neighbors, former and future mates, offspring and so on. You can also find monitors congregated at food resources, whether it be a drying pool on a floodplain, a dead 'roo alongside a track, or a picnic area in the bush. When the food is gone the animals go too, and they go off separately to their own home ranges.
There are dozens, maybe closer to a hundred, carefully-conducted research projects where monitors of many species --African, Asian, Australian, have been observed and studied by biologists, and nobody has documented anything like "bonded pairs" that remain together in the nonbreeding season, "hubs" or colonies, animals "sharing food" or basking piled atop of one another, and so on. We do have good evidence from some field studies that individual monitors recognize their neighbors and behave differently towards them than towards strangers, but so do bears and leopards and rhinos, like many other nonsocial and territorial species.
The biologists who conduct these projects are every bit as fascinated by monitors as are those who keep them in captivity, and it is ridiculous to suggest that all of them have agreed to "not see" or to suppress evidence of the sorts of social systems FR would like to believe exist.
So where else might we look for expertise on the biology and behavior of wild monitors? In Australia, why don't we ask Aboriginal people – for around 50,000 years their survival depended on being skilled field herpers, among other things, and goannas have always been highly prized as a source of fats in an otherwise very lean environment. Aboriginal people, in short, know how to find goannas. They understand very well how to predict concentrations at food sources, or where nesting areas are a limited resource, but at other times of the year they must go looking for them. Do they know about FR's "bonded pairs", about "hubs", about any of that stuff? Nah. If you go out with Aboriginal women who are hunting goannas, or simply drive around with Aboriginal people who never miss a trick when it comes to spotting some good tucker, what you see is pretty much what the biologists see. Having done this, I can report that Aboriginal people find no more goannas than would a similar number of experienced field herpers, and we are not coming up with animals in pairs or in groups out in the bush. It frankly has never occurred to me to ask, but I have a strong suspicion that statements like FR makes would get some response like "why he makin' humbug, nothing to that humbug talk."
So why does FR persist in "makin' humbug" about the biology of wild monitors? It's a mixture of anecdotes and rhetoric, and careens into a sewer of personal invective about science and scientists if anyone presents a different view. Entertaining perhaps, but it's a disservice to monitors and monitor-keeping in the end. Why do biologists twist his shorts? Maybe we get sick of humbug.

