Hi there,
Here is a friendly opinion from a fellow female herp lover:
Choose a jackson.
Why? Many reasons. I'll explain.
My hubby and I started with panthers and stumptails the first year. The second year we added veileds, and mellers. By year three we added deremensis, quadracornis, rudis. Last year we finally added jacksons. Wow... what the heck were we waiting for! Actually, my hubby wasn't all that attracted to the jackson for some reason - but now, he can't imagine what he was thinking.
While each species have personality galore - and some individuals have enough for 6 - each one of our jacksons is sweet and friendly (we keep between 38-50). They are not that difficult to care for, one just has to keep in mind that they need things a bit cooler as they are a montane species rather than a lowland (panthers or veiled).
Never have we had one bite, snarl or hiss. They don't mind being moved so that you can clean the cage, and they love most feeder insects. As long as you meet their environment requirements, you should have a good pal that doesn't mind people so much. Some even like to get out for short tours of exploration.
On the flip side - veileds are one of the most aggressive species of chameleons that are readily sold to the public. There is no way to predict if you will be lucky and get one that will tolerate handling after they reach maturity. Sure, there are friendly young ones, but once they reach adulthood they join the ranks of the common "leave me alone" ones. Male and female, alike.
Panthers can be shy - friendly - or aggressive. We have all of the above. For the most part, the females are usually quite passive. Most males, if gotten young and handled a bit, will always remain calm. There are exceptions, as always. Some of our adult males are really pussycats - but we have one tiger. *LOL*
If you want tons of colors and can afford the panther, choose a young cb panther male that has been handled by the breeder. (It is certainly okay to ask the seller these questions.)
If you want a horned chameleon which reminds you of the dinosaur age - and has great personality - choose a jackson male. (You can ask the seller about their personalities too.)
Hope this helps,
BTW... our absolute favorite "character" chams are the quads..
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