Well, then I recommend you don't get a lizard. They are not that kind of pet. Oh, a few species cn provide hand feeding interaction, and some will tolerate handling when you clean the cage. Leopard geckos and crested geckos are calm as adults, as are bearded dragons and blue-tonged skinks. But my and large, these lizards will not do well if handled a lot, especially babies.
On the other hand, I will point out some of the WORST choices you could make for an lizard to handle:
Tokay Gecko: will rip your hand off. So will a knight anole. This also goes for their relatives as well. Like the tokays, a croc gecko will bite like hell. The Jamacain giant anole is foul tempered as well: I saw a girl at Radford University get her hand ripped open by an adult A. garmani that was living in the greenhouse on campus.
Curly-tails and small lacertas, plus basilisk lizards: These are maniac species: They bloody their snots on cage walls and act like Tokyo citizens running from Godzilla everytime you open the cage.
Day geckos, small anoles, fence lizards, spiny lizards (Sceleporus), green tree skinks, five-lined (Eumeces) and rainbow rock skinks (Mabuya) house geckos, flying geckos, and other small species: some really pretty display, but easily stressed by handling. Day geckos in particular are bad choices for handling, and any green anole you handling more than once a week will be a stress-out emaciated zombie in no time. All the lizards mentioned here are speed demons, many with toe pads allowing them to negotiate glass windows and even ceilings. All are big tail-droppers as well. Leave them in planted terrariums and enjoy them as you would fish.
Skinks: most are burrowers, the Berber's skink has a nasty temper like knight anoles and tokays. Many of the others species, such as great plains skink, broaded-headed skinks, and others are mean too. Crocodile skinks get terribly stressed from handing.
