But you don't. When you get some experience, you will understand, that all that shape difference is not all that reliable. It really does boil down to whom lays the eggs.
You see hemipene shape is age/sex/location/and who knows what dependant. Thats kinda what experience tells ya.
When I read this species IS like this and that IS like that, I kinda scratch my head. As it just doesn't seem to be that way in practice. I mean even in nature, I went popping gouldi in many different localities and found they were all different.
Even to a point of hatching five males, raising them to adults and their hemipenes are all different. So please, don't take it as something wrong with you, theres just more to it then you think.
Once you get the hang of it and have seen the range a species contains, then you can get a feel for what is male.
Lastly, I have tested all sorts of expert monitor hemipene poppers, when they come to visit, and all have failed with known animals. Some failed a lot. F