>>Is there anyway to tame him down a little?I know handing will help,but will he become "tame" I would like to be able to reach in on him without getting bitten.
Yes, you hold him and you take the bites and don't let them phase you. After he figures out biting doesn't work he'll stop. Be patient and use what ever methods you feel work best for you to feel comfortable and calm while letting him get his defensive behaviour out of the way.
I have yet to hear of a carpet that didn't mellow out as an adult. My Coastal male was a 3 1/2ft hellion but with time/handling he grew out of it and is now mellow. I also have an '02 Female at home that needs constant handling to keep her tame. But she is far better than she was even a 6months ago!...It just take time and patience
Darci
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