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Off topic, but please read... Thanks.

ragnew Feb 15, 2004 12:08 AM

Hey guys and gals,

Well it's safe to say, that this Valentine's day has been a bit of a drag... This morning at about 11:55 my 11 month old niece, Haley was admitted to the ER for malnutrition and dehydration..

For the past four days "boo-bear" has been fighting what the doctors thought was a typical stomach virus that babies come incontact with... The little kiddo had been suffering from severe diarreah (sp) and vomiting... Last thursday at about midnight they gave her an "iv" and thought that would take care of the problem.... It didn't.

Today Haley was so weak that she couldn't even hold her head up, you could tell by looking in her eyes that she was almost ready to give up... I've never been so scared in all my 24 years on this planet so far.. I thought that this would be the day I'd loose something that was so very, very precious to me...

Boo-Bear was so dehydrated that all but one vein had collapsed.. This vein was in her ankle... The doctors are now fearing that Haley has come incontact with the Roto Virus, a gastro virus that can be very, very deadly to infant children, especially with the dehydration that comes as a result...

I'm so very, very sorry to be venting like this, but I really needed to do it...

I have a favor to ask of you, tonight when you say your prayers before bed, would you be able to add a little extra one for Haley? We'd all appreciate it more then you'd ever possibly know...

Thanks everyone, and take care of yourselves...

- Richie Agnew

Replies (8)

StinaUIUC Feb 15, 2004 02:51 AM

Oh hon...I'm so sorry about that!...that's terrible! I hope she pulls through... The poor thing I'll be hoping and praying for her health and safety!
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Christina

1.3.1 leos
-0.1 tangerine het rainwater albino w/jungle background (Blinkers)
-0.2 jungles (Vahz & Skissor)
-0.0.1 albino (supposed Tremper)(Spitfire)
-1.0 tangerine rainwater albino (aoy unnamed...)
1.0 australian shepherd/cattle dog (Foster...although he was being fostered before I got him...that has nothing to do with his name...It's after the beer!...lol since he's australian and I'm a college student!)

das408851 Feb 15, 2004 04:06 AM

she will be in my prayers every night untill she is better. get back to us and let us now how she is doing!

hang in there your self!
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DUANE (aka HERP WHORE)

tokay_dude1 Feb 15, 2004 05:52 AM

Oh man...she'll definatly be in my prayers, infact...i'll say a prayer right now for her..
take care, i'll also say a prayer for her every night untill she's better.
-Danny

thegeckobarn Feb 15, 2004 02:31 PM

hi, I will say a prayer for your little niece...I do hope she pulls through ok. Poor baby.
I am also going to post this on another board (www.sugarglider.net) to get you some more prayers, that I know you desperatly need.
I sure hope everything turns out ok.
Sending prayers your way!

~Crystal
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Crystal Light (Yes..thats my real name)

*Whenever you lose a gecko, just think of it as God building on his own Leopard Gecko collection

www.thegeckobarn.com

Sybella Feb 15, 2004 09:48 PM

That is so sad! As a mother of 3, I can understand how awful this must be for her parents as well. Please keep us informed on her progress.

ragnew Feb 16, 2004 01:54 AM

Hmm, where to start.. First off I'd like to thank you all from the bottom of my heart. I honestly can't tell you how wonderful you all have been...

Today we found out that "Boo-Bear" had indeed come incontact with the Rota virus... And the case that she had come down with was very, very severe. Just how severe? Let me give you some examples...

For the last four days, Haley had been stricken with severe, severe diarreah as well as vomitting. And I do mean severe. She'd eat something and in a matter of seconds (usually about 6) she would expel the food out both ends... Thus leading to the critical level of her health.

On Thursday night, she was taken into the ER and treated the same way that any child who had come down with a stomach virus would have been treated... She was given "ivs" for two hours and then sent home... No blood work, no nothing... Blood work would have saved us alot of pain...

Yesterday at about 11:00am, my brother Fred (Haleys father) called me and told me that they were admitting "Boo-Bear" because of dehydration and malnutrition, due to the amount of vomitting and diarreah that she'd been having... She could keep nothing down. By the time that Haley reached the Hospital, she'd lost all strength in her little body, she couldn't even hold her head up... It was that bad. She also, went into a very, very incoherent state... This was because her body was literally shutting down.

By 2:00pm, the Doctors had come to the conclusion that all of Haleys veins had collapsed due to the thickness of Haleys blood at that point.. The minute they tried to "iv" her they vein would "burst"... What a horrible ordeal this was, each and every "poke" was more pain than that little angel should have ever had to have endured.

By this time, my Mother, my brothers mother and father in-law were out in the Hallway comforting my sister in-law (Haleys mama) Leslie.. While me and my father were in the room trying to console my brother while he held his baby girl...

The doctors told us that a normal baby has 30% oxygen in the blood, and Haleys was only at 10% (the lowest ever recorded at that hospital was 8%.. And sadly that baby didnt make it). Time was running out, we were literally watching our angel slip away before our eyes...

I remember looking into "Boos" eyes, and seeing that she had nothing more to give... The will to fight was no longer there and she was hanging on by the will of God alone...

At this time, my father bent over his grand daughter, looked her in the eyes and in a voice that was choking back tears, stated the following "You have to fight baby girl, you can't give up". I'd never seen my pa like that in all my life, it was heartbreaking... I thought for sure that we were going to be robbed of the most precious gift that we'd ever been given. It was a helpless feeling.... A very, very helpless feeling.

Then at that moment, the doctors got a vein that had blood that ran like a faucet... This vein was in Haleys ankle... The only vein in her body that hadn't collapsed. If they didn't find this vein, they would have had to have gone into the bone, and supplied the marrow with the "iv" while the blood was produced... A procedure that we were told would have been very, very drastic to Haley at this point...

The doctors told us that Haley was in a critical state, and that a Heart attack could happen anytime, or any minute... They actually thought that this 11 month old baby girl, would be taken away without anything we could do about it... A scary feeling I tell you, a very, very scary feeling. I wouldn't want a life without the "Boo-Bear"... And I'm just her Uncle.

This morning I was awoken by a phone call at about 6am... It was my brother telling us that Haley had eaten apple sauce, some formula and hadn't thrown up at all.. I remeber saying to myself "Lord, you've gotten us this far, please don't let us loose her now... Please stand by our side". I felt like it was a game of cat and mouse... And anytime the cat could strike...

At about 11am, my brother showed up at our House, and we all went over to see Boo together... He told me and my younger brother that Haley was still beat up, and wasn't doing anything that she usually did... So we weren't supposed to be too upset when we saw her... This was going to be very, very hard.

I remember walking into the Room where Boo was, and seeing Leslie and my bros mother in-law sitting on the bed looking at the "Bear"... I looked over at her, and immediately she waved and smiled (I get choked up just thinking about this). Just a day ago, Haley was literally at deaths door, we were honestly watching her slip by us and could do nothing about it.. but now here she is, smiling, pointing, peekabooing, and waving... Like she always had... On this last blood test, the oxygen level was at 22%, which was considered lower normal... Imagine this, from 10% to 22% in one night... God has his ways, I tell you.. He has his ways...

Today at 5:00pm, my brothers doctors gave him and my sister in-law the okay to take Haley home... They said that she'd recover soo much faster outside of the hospital. Since then she's eaten apple sauce, formula and other things on the brat diet... She hasn't thrown up at all, and I pray to God thats how it will stay...

It is now 12:49am, and the Boo bear has managed to keep everything down... I thank God for all he has done..

We witnessed a miracle today here folks... And this miracle was all thanks to you all for helping us out with the prayers and kind thoughts...

YOU literally helped us save an earthbound angel and for that we will be eternally grateful...

We ALL prayed and he listend!!! Thank you all for joining hands with us in this most of trying times!!!

Thank you ALL so very, very much... For everything. I honestly can't say it enough!!! Thank you all so much...

God Bless YOU ALL!!!

On behalf of the Agnew family,

- Richie Agnew

Attached is a picture of the "Boo-Bear"

StinaUIUC Feb 16, 2004 08:08 AM

I'm so glad that she's ok!!! She's adorable...what a horrible ordeal that must have been
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Christina

1.3.1 leos
-0.1 tangerine het rainwater albino w/jungle background (Blinkers)
-0.2 jungles (Vahz & Skissor)
-0.0.1 albino (supposed Tremper)(Spitfire)
-1.0 tangerine rainwater albino (Bronx)
1.0 australian shepherd/cattle dog (Foster...although he was being fostered before I got him...that has nothing to do with his name...It's after the beer!...lol since he's australian and I'm a college student!)

izabella Feb 17, 2004 12:15 AM

My 9 month old daughter, Izabella, just got released from the hospital 3 days ago from what doctor's also called the Rota Virus. She had the same exact symptoms.. severe vomiting and massive diarrhea. She was soo lethargic and dehydrated. No matter what I gave her to drink, it would shoot out of her, from one end or another within' 1 minute. They took test after test. Then they came to me and told me it was the Rota Virus.. Something new that had come across only 1 month ago. At that time my baby was the only in the hosp that was suffering from it.
I was relieved.. (well not so much relieved because no baby or child should have to go through any pain and suffering) but just to know that my little girl wasn't the only one.. I am very happy to hear that your "Boo-Bear" is recovering. She will be in our prayers (mine and Izzy's) until she is 100% well. I wish you the best.
(Ps. It took my daughter 1 1/2 weeks to fully recover.. meaning back to solids food AND solid poopies).
Thanks fo reading.

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