You're not asking too many questions. I'm glad I can be of help. 
About mealworms...rather than leaving them in and only replenishing them once a week, you might want to change them out for fresh ones every evening. In other words, pick out so many and put them in the dish. Then, the next night, put whatever is left back into the bedding and pick out new ones again. This way, the mealworms have always freshly eaten, which gives the leos more nutrients and also, the mealworms wont starve to death.
Keeping mealworms available all the time and offering crickets periodically is a good plan.
If you want to offer more variety, Silkworms (if you can find them) are good too. Then, once she gets bigger, you can offer superworms and pink mice.
Regarding eggs, I put my eggs in a plastic box, in a bedding of moist vermiculite, then place the entire thing with the lid closed inside the incubator. So, no it's not hard at all.
This thread is getting burried...it will be on page 3 soon! I almost didn't see it this time. LOL! If you have any more questions, start a new thread and I'll watch for your username. 