I bet we are used to seeing different species. The name dermestid actually refers to a whole family of beetles, the Dermestidae, so the species that comes with our crickets probably varies with the location of the supplier and the dermestids native to that area.
Your search for pictures was much more fruitful than mine. Your second site has pics closest to what I'm used to seeing, but I couldn't open the third. From the descriptions, most were described as carpet beetles or pests on grain. The ones I'm used to seeing look a lot like the ones maintained in colonies to strip the flesh off of skeletons, but I couldn't find any pictures online.
I think that the small hairs on the adult beetles and the hairy larvae are diagnostic of the family (I left my beetle book at work, but I'll double check tomorrow). I was still feeding crix / finding dermestids back when I took entomology and my professor confirmed my ID, but it's also possible we're finding different families of beetles / larvae altogether; trying to compare apples and oranges 
-Alice