You are a much bigger heat signature than a frozen-thawed rodent, and that's probably what your STP is picking up on.
So your idea of him looking up at you is actually probably pretty close, except instead of seeing you, the snake sees this big giant warm mass, as opposed to the room-temp lifeless lump dangling at the end of some tongs. Make sense?
Make sure any F/T rodents you offer him are significantly warm - i.e. throw them on a heating pad for ten minutes or so after they're already up to room temperature. Or, right before you offer the rodent to your snake, stick the rodent's head on a light bulb for 15 seconds (one mississippi, two mississippi, etc) and then offer the very warm head to your snake via tongs. Bloods & short-tails have those labial heat-sensing pits for a reason, and it seems that they really need a very warm heat signature to key in on when making the solid transition to F/T.
Give it a go...it might take a try or two (or three...) but I'd bet dollars to doughnuts that your snake will eat F/T.
Also, DO NOT stress yourself excessively out over feeding live - just try to switch to prey that has a much smaller chance of harming your snake. For example, instead of giving him adult mice, give him rats (i.e. rat crawlers) of a similar size that are still too small to do much - if any at all - damage to your snake.
Good luck!
K
>>My baby male borneo is quite the picky eater and I am getting kind of frustrated! I've had him for about a month, and when I bought him they told me he was eating prekilled, which I don't doubt...I just think I have bad luck. I got him to eat prekilled once, frozen not at all, and aside from that one prekilled he'll only eat live ! Its stressing me out so much feeding him live, I'm scared for him. Anyone have any suggestions?
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>>I have a theory that he might be able to see my hand at the other end of the tongs and this throws him off...he'll seem interested then look at up me and then ignore the mouse. Could that be a possibility?
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