I've found that I can give them the same stimulation by feeding them F/T using long forceps and then give them a little "tug-o-war" when they grab the rat. No need to feed live.
Nobody said that they need your help. What was said was that it is safer to feed F/T than it is to feed live and this is absolutely true. We have no control over what happens to snakes feeding in the wild and that's not our concern. What is our concern is the fact that we are keeping these animals in captivity and it is our responsibility to do everything in our power to keep them disease free and uninjured.
I've heard the arguments that they should be fed exactly what they eat in the wild, and IMHO it's hogwash. In the first place, they would not be eating domestic rats in the wild. I don't know anyone that is going to go out and catch wild rats and mice to feed their snakes. That would be foolish anyway, because of the danger of wild prey items transmitting parasites to our captive animals (which live domestic rodents can also do). Wild animals, including snakes, normally carry some parasite load. In captivity, because of the confined area they live in, parasite loads can quickly bloom to overwhelming levels (depending on parasite species). Another flaw with that argument...if it applies to snakes, why would it not apply to cats and dogs too? Should they also be fed what they would eat in the wild? Should we be tossing live rabbits into the back yard for our dogs to eat? Captive born and bred snakes are domesticated animals.