Don't write her off! That's terrible. When for no appearant reason, my male went lithargic, lost weight and was spiraling down, I brought him back by force feeding. Really, only forcing the food into his mought, not down his throat, he did that. Here's my notes on how I did it.....Try it if you can, it can't really hurt and it sounds like nothing to lose.
Feeding with a needle less syringe
When Rocky appeared to “come down with something,” I’d just maxed out my credit card trying to save my female, so I was determined to do what I could on my own. He stopped eating, then, as he had in the past, he started to get lethargic, not moving around too much, and eyes closed most of the time. Last time this had happened, two big shots of fluids and a tube feeding turned things around. So I took it upon myself to head to the grocery store and get those baby food jars that read just like my uro’s dinner list. The vet gave me a 6cc syringe without a needle (let’s face it, I wanted to help, not make things worse), and I also picked up some pedialyte at the store.
Twice a day to start, I’d take take a shot glass, not that I had any, and go 50% pedialyte and 50% baby food. Stir it up and place it in a water glass of the hottest tap water I could get. Once it warmed up, took him out and have everything ready to feed.
Then, with a full syringe (6cc for a then 88gram geyri) I’d work it in between his “lips” by the hinge of his mouth. Once he’d get a taste, he’d start “lickin’ his chops” and that’s when I’d put the whole tip of the syringe in his mouth, and start feeding it in. I found it easier if I held him at a 45 degree angle, as he would start to open his throat area, and the whole syringe would go in. I don’t really think he’d swallow it until later, but as long as it wasn’t coming back out, I was ok with it. He didn’t stress or dislike it too much, as after, I could set him down on the couch, and he’d stroll around instead of running.
I did this twice a day for about 1-2 weeks, then I would start to wean him down to once a day (twice a day here and there if I thought he’d take it in). Also, I’d start going with a bit more food and less pedialyte. Eventually, in about 3-4 weeks, it was very noticeable that his energy, weight, and appetite came back. I now keep all the necessary stuff here incase I need it again.
This is just a thought and not saying that this will help, but I can’t see why it would hurt. Rocky’s now plump enough that he looks like he’s “puffed” up in defense (little fatso).
Hope that helps a bit.
Jim
(Note: The feeding with a needless syringe was done with Rocky because, for reasons
unknown, he stopped eating, which caused his metabolism and energy to drop,
cause dehydration, which in turn caused him to feel bad, therefore not to
eat, and it spiraled down until he was outright lethargic. Only then did I
resort to the baby food/pedialyte through the syringe.)
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2.1 - Rocky, Runako, and RoxyIII
