Hey man,
Sorry for your loss... I know the feeling you're going through... Just keep your head up and move on...remember, they're monitors, and there are many more eggs to come... or at least that's the way I see it... Mistakes are there for us to learn from them...
As for vermiculite, I have never tried it, but I have seen that most people opt to use perlite over vermiculite...Perhaps vermiculite acts like a sponge and absorbs a lot of water, while perlite is more 'breathable'... I am by no means a person to give pointers on incubation, but maybe you could try perlite with the next clutch..
Also, do what I plan on doing for my next clutches, set the eggs up in large containers, with lots of perlite/medium.. This will prevent great fluctuations in temp and humidity... Why the hell did I not think of this when i first set up my eggs...what a bonehead...
Anyways, again, sorry for the loss, just keep at it, and you'll succeed.. Take care,
bob
The Odatriad