LOL!! I hear ya! For future reference, you may want to put toilet paper rolls into the silkie container when they are close to pupating. They will seek out a sheltered place and then this way when they emerge they have to climb out of the tube and are less likely to deposit eggs everywhere.
For your current situation, I would put a few cocoons in separate boxes. You can place them in paper bags rolled close but if you do not know they have eclosed a female will abort her eggs before mating (if your goal is to collect eggs from as many pairings as possible). The best thing to do is once you see a pair mating or can distinguish a male from female put the pair in a separate container (best to do before they begin mating b/c if you dislodge them they may not resume.) Then put the female into a paper bag, box, whatever and you can collect her eggs much easier. Remember, if they don’t turn dark within three days after laying they are infertile).
In the cocoon stage, the females are generally much larger than the males. Once eclosed the females have bodies that look out of proportionally large for their head and wings, (their body is long, too) and the males look of normal proportion and smaller. So you can
take one of each and put them in together and they will mate. Leave them be until they separate on their own. If you are NOT looking to collect a zillion eggs and just want to feed off the moths then it really doesn’t matter much.
Hope this helps!
Lele 
Here’s a site with a few male/female pix
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0.1 veiled - Luna
0.2 house geckos - Gaia & Tia (MIA 
0.2 felines - Kyndra and Líta