wow - it' so great to have found this site and this exchange. I am a mom with an eight year old daughter who has wanted a snake for a year. I've done some research; we shopped all Saturday (5 hours) looking for a corn snake. We found one that was "grumpy". We were told it had been just over a week since he had been fed. We brought him home, fed him a furry (or fluffy or fuzzy - I can't remember). He snatched it and gobbled it down.
The next day we wanted to pick it up but every time we tried he lunged at us with mouth wide open. My husband and I want to be the first to hold him because we don't want a bite to scare Ashley away. She's held lots of snakes and really wants this to work.
Of course, you hear everything from - leave it alone at least three full days, to pick it up immediately, to use gloves, to don't use gloves.
I know there's no one-good-answer, but any further experiences, ideas or suggestions would be mucho appreciated!
PS - is it mean to keep finding and exposing the snake when it's hiding? How much is too much? We're sooooooooooooooooo curious.