Very true. I read a little, and thought I could handle it. It was going well up until 2 days ago. He was nice and fat, but hadn't deficated since I had him. Then he went a good 10-15 times in the one day, and lost a lot of weight. So I gave him some ants, but he wouldn't take them. Still not sure what I did wrong though.
Since I figured he would be dead by tomorrow, I decided I might as well try to force feed him. I gace him 15 ants (would have gave him mire, but was afraid I would gag him), and sprayed some water in his mouth. After that he opened his eyes and started to move around a little. Now he's back to how he was when I posted. Weak, limp, not moving, and still won't take the ants on his own.
The person I got it from doesn't live too far away. So tomorrow I'm going to bring it over and see if she knows what can be done to help it.