No, it's cool. Things get heated but we're all here for the same reason, even though we don't always agree. 
It is true that good veterinary care for reptiles is difficult to come by. I have a friend who recently graduated from vet school, and he was saying how there really is no school that teaches much about reptiles at all. Reptile vets have to seek the knowledge themselves after graduation. Shame too, considering how popular reptiles are these days. Still, most vets have a better understanding of anatomy and medicine than most of us, and a lot of it can be applied to reptiles even if they aren't specifically trained for it.
Good reptile vets are out there if you know where to look, and sometimes there are things that only a good vet or extremely knowledgable keeper can help. Such as severed limb and extreme blood loss (like the case that started all this.) Your average pet owner simply doesn't have the understanding of anatomy and medicine to handle that sort of thing, in which case almost any vet would be better than none at all.
"How many times have you all taken your herp to a vet for a problem and gotten help you couldnt have gotten elsewhere"
None, actually. The only problem my lizards have had to visit the vet for was a case of parasites (one lizard actually), which my vet was able to diagnose and treat accordingly. Something I never would have been able to do. If any of them were ever severly injured, I am positive he could help them better than I or advice I got on the internet could.
Anyways, it is a case by case thing, I think. True many problems can easily be addressed by getting help from other kerpers. Then there are going to be certain situations and emergencies that can only be safely handled and treated by someone with medical and surgical training. As responsible owners we need to be prepared for such situations, lest we let our pet suffer. In the case of a tarantula or very small lizards and such, if treatment can't even be given by a professional, at least they could ease the animal's pain with euthanasia, rather than let it suffer.
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Amanda
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2.0 bearded dragons (Ocho / Domo-kun)
1.0 pictus gecko (Nicodemus)
0.1 kingsnake (Rio)
0.0.1 tarantula (Calcifer)
1.0 ferret (Playstation)
1.0 cat (Wally)
0.1 dog (Tima)